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PERSPECTIVES ON RELATIONSHIPS & MENTAL HEALTH


HOW I WORK AS A TRAUMA-INFORMED COUPLES THERAPIST IN CALIFORNIA
Regina Bernius shares how she works as a trauma-informed couples therapist in California. Her integrative approach draws on EFT, the Gottman Method, RLT, and Accelerated Resolution Therapy to support couples in Orange County and virtually throughout California in building deeper connection and lasting relational change.
Regina Bernius
Jul 184 min read


WHEN COUPLES THERAPY IS NOT APPROPRIATE
Sometimes a therapist ends couples therapy early or declines to continue. It is not a rejection. Here is what is actually happening and why it matters.
Regina Bernius
May 144 min read


WHY YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM SABOTAGES HARD RELATIONSHIP CONVERSATIONS`
When conversations escalate fast or you shut down completely, your nervous system got there before your intentions did. Here is what is actually happening and what helps.
Regina Bernius
May 105 min read


WHAT IS EMOTIONAL VALIDATION IN A RELATIONSHIP (AND WHY IT'S SO HARD TO DO)
Most people think they validate their partner but are actually doing something else entirely. Here is what validation really means and why it changes everything.
Regina Bernius
Apr 275 min read


WHY COUPLES KEEP HAVING THE SAME FIGHT (AND WHAT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING)
If your relationship feels like the same argument on repeat, it may not be what you think. Here is what is actually happening and what helps.
Regina Bernius
Apr 154 min read
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