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When Couples Therapy Is Not Appropriate
Sometimes a therapist ends couples therapy early or declines to continue. It is not a rejection. Here is what is actually happening and why it matters.
Regina Bernius
2 days ago3 min read


Accelerated Resolution Therapy for Phobias: A Faster Path Through Fear
If you have a phobia that limits your life, there is a relatively new therapy that may help in far fewer sessions than you expect. Here is what Accelerated Resolution Therapy is and how it works for phobias.
Regina Bernius
6 days ago3 min read


Why Your Nervous System Makes It Hard to Have the Conversations Your Relationship Needs
When conversations escalate fast or you shut down completely, your nervous system got there before your intentions did. Here is what is actually happening and what helps.
Regina Bernius
6 days ago4 min read


What Is Emotional Validation in a Relationship (And Why It's So Hard to Do)
Most people think they validate their partner but are actually doing something else entirely. Here is what validation really means and why it changes everything.
Regina Bernius
Apr 274 min read


Why Couples Keep Having the Same Fight (And What's Actually Happening)
If your relationship feels like the same argument on repeat, it may not be what you think. Here is what is actually happening and what helps.
Regina Bernius
Apr 153 min read

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